Self respect is the most important thing. Some people just don’t get this. I don’t understand how people just compromise their self respect. Specially in the cases of love. Yeah I too have been through this situation where we just allow our partners to disrespect us, treat us like nothing and forgive them for their behavior just because we love them and we want them in our lives. Our forgiveness is what makes them comfortable. They know if they do it again there’s no problem because they know we will be forgiving them.
This is what makes us compromise our self respect.
The more chances you give some one, the more you loose your value. Some times its not just worth it. They do it always. Make yourself understand that if they do it once its a mistake and if they do it twice its not a mistake , its a choice. They choose to hurt you, they don’t have any respect for your feelings. They forget the standards and boundaries you have build for yourself
Respect yourself enough to walk away from some like that. You aren’t any shit. You aren’t any toy. You are a girl who deserve some one who respects you and your standards.
Those who disrespect you with their mouth, don’t deserve your ear
If you are willing to comprise your self respect it means you don’t respect yourselves and unless you wont respect yourself nobody else will.
Learn to LOVE YOURSELF first.
Self love isn’t about thinking that you are better then anyone because that comes from a place of insecurity not love. Self love is about how to love and accept yourself for who you are and not needing to compare yourself with anyone because you have learned that you are enough as you are and you always will be enough. Self love is about loving yourself so much that it comes natural for you to love others.
But above all these what matters is loving yourself enough to not tolerate any person treating you like shit.
Yes you are the queen of your own little kingdom. You deserve respect. You deserve honesty. You deserve loyalty. Don’t allow anyone let you down. Just throw these people out of your life.
You might find it a little difficult now. But five years from now you ll be proud you did this.
Cutting out people from life doesn’t mean you hate them, it just means you respect yourself.
Anonymous Girl 